You can assert this but it, in my daily experience, is simply not true.
If so, it says that the multichannel system setup is flawed.
If the multich front speakers are similar, position same, room acoustics the same, then of course they will sound the same. But different practical considerations leads to differences, at least for movie/home-th vs 2-ch rooms.
If you simply add surround speakers to a 2-ch room system, the that will of course not destroy anything at all, and gives the opportunity to experiment with upmix or using a dsp to add delayed sound and increase ambience.
But my experience is that 2-ch can give a good impression of the recording space, and it gets better with better speakers and better room acoustics. Reducing early reflection level significantly, while retaining some of the later decay, increases sense of room and space that is present in the recording.