That would be an example where knowing the true SPL isn't necessary. Consider that an offending mode will present itself in two ways: as narrow band of frequencies that are higher than the "average" level, or as prolonged ringing around a narrow band of frequencies. To identify a mode in the first instance all you need to see is what is louder than everything else, and for that you only need to know the relative level rather than the "true" level. In the second instance, you need good temporal detail (to see what has a long tail), but there again, it is relative SPL is what reveals the mode. What is higher in level than the surrounding at any given time index.
Let's look at a couple examples.
The most offensive bass problems are around 83Hz and 120Hz and they present themselves as being fairly narrow band and higher in level than the "average" around them. 265Hz is an issue too, but perhaps not quite what we think of as a room mode, per se...
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Here's another one where the main issue is at 47Hz. It's clearly above the rest of the spectrum, and I can say that reducing its level definitely improves the sound.
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Lets look at the waterfall of the first example, but remember that there's an additional component: FFT analysis trades time resolution for frequency resolution. Here is with high frequency resolution.
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And here with high time resolution.
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As you can see, identifying the frequency of the "tails" becomes harder. But somewhere around 70Hz, there appears to be some ringing that wasn't apparent in the measurement with high frequency resolution. Nevertheless, it's still the feature that's higher in level than the surrounding that shows the ringing