That's the issue. It's not measuring/correcting for distance, but time. It's a pet-peeve of mine when AVRs and room-correction software uses distance as a measure of time (and it even resulted in a speed-of-sound bug in Audyssey on D+M AVRs). When you use a wireless connection, what's really happening is the analog signal from your AVR is going into the wireless transceiver, being converted back to digital, buffered (for some time window, maybe 4-16ms), packetized, transmitted, re-assembled, converted back to analog, and passed to the line-level input on your subwoofer.
This process, as you may have surmised is slow. Generally on the order of 30-60ms. Sound travels at 1087 feet per second, so 30 feet would equate to 27.6 ms. Now, what ARC Genesis is saying is that it won't attempt to time align speakers that are delayed by more than 27.6 ms -- your real delay is probably worse than that -- I'd bet at least 50 ms. That's just the time it takes to transmit to the subwoofer -- if your sub is really 30 ft away from the Main Listening Position, then double it!
Consider that your wired speakers are probably only 6-12 ms delayed and you can see why it's hard to time align when your subwoofer is delayed by 10x the rest of your system. ARC Genesis is looking at this and basically throwing its hands up, which is the right call. Dirac doesn't bother to correct beyond 20 ms, FWIW, even though some manufacturers have increased that value to 50 ms. That's already over 1 frame at 24 Hz and over 3 frames at 60 Hz -- something that's very noticeable in terms of late audio and lip sync.
TL; DR: switch to wired speakers across the board, or learn to live without room correction. Even the best engineered wireless solution is going to induce at least 4 ms of latency, but I have not seen anything on the market that is not significantly worse than that. In fact, I'm suspicious of pretty much all packetized digital audio transmission systems (ethernet-based AES67 or what-have-you) because they are all going to induce non-trivial amounts of latency.