Killingbeans
Major Contributor
Is life for women this bad, in the west, in 2023? Sure, you could give some examples, but I do feel this is a bit much. I have participated in other forums that have a more even male/female split and I didn't hear talk of women getting 'nice guy' PMs or much inevitable misogyny (anyone who went beyond what was considered decent was dealt with quickly, at least one moderator was female too). I doubt many, if any, would get those PMs here.
I've heard stories about female TicToc users getting their inboxes flooded with death threats, and female YouTubers quitting the business because of similar situations. Granted, those places have a much, much broader demographic, and some of those stories have possibly been sensationalized.
I'd like to think of ASR as a place of inclusiveness where women can engage on equal terms, and where the fear I'm imagining is either unfounded or non existent.
I absolutely hope that my comment turns out to be extremely pessimistic
I don't see why being considerate to women necessitates saying how bad and awful men are. Sure, some are and give a bad name to the rest of us, but the same could be said about the fairer sex too (I hope fairer sex isn't unintentionally sexist). is it right to paint with such broad brush strokes...I don't see how this helps relations between men and women generally speaking?
Point taken.