If you care about XLR, just buy a sub with XLR inputs, there are plenty available, and the more capable subs almost all have XLRs.The problem is that in particular for longer subwoofer runs you are running an unbalanced cable.
The best solution is to convert to unbalanced as close to the sub as possible so you only end up with 2 feet of RG6 instead of 30 feet.
The best solutions are either a Jensen transformer or an active converter like the Rolls MB15b ProMatch.
Of course this problem wouldn't exist if manufacturers would offer XLR inputs and outputs on ALL equipment.
The Luddute adherence to RCA unbalanced connects is a stupid anachronism that should be terminated with extreme prejudice.