How have you tested this? If memory serves, the FR differences in the audible range are quite small and the differences in the audible range of people who aren't under 21 are close to nonexistent.
Yes, on the Revel F328Be the move from the SD Sharp to SD Slow filter with the RME ADI-2 filter adds a nice extra sheen to the highs. It's especially noticeable with cymbals. On my BMR Monitors, it's less noticeable.