I did the DIY retrofit 3 way active with REW thing. It is great fun and you will learn a lot but there is a learning curve every step of the way and I am still working on it 3 years in. Regarding amps for a 3 way active system I don't think it makes sense to have the power the same for the 3 different drivers. Tweeters need a fraction (like 10 %) of the power of the woofer with the mid range is in the middle (probably closer to the tweeter depending on crossover). While not popular here I don't use "protection caps" on my tweeters both for cost and phase shift reasons, I just size the amp sensibly and have never had an issue. Blowing a tweeter with 200 watts is super easy, with 25 watts not so much.