With the WiiM, you'd really want to have a sub with both LPF and HPFed pass-through for the mains. Not many subs have that.
Not only those features, but adjustable time delay. Getting a smooth crossover between the speakers and subwoofer is an uphill battle without being able to adjust the time delay.
I battled that for years with my setup. It wasn't until I got a MiniDSP SHD last year that I finally got good bass response out of my system. It took experimenting with different crossover slopes and frequencies, and adjusting the time delay each time to get the speakers and subwoofer in-phase, to get what I consider to be good bass.
Is it a substantial difference between digital subwoofer integration (minidsp flex) and just using built in hpf/lpf in subwoofers?
Yes. If you want to add a subwoofer, my recommendation is to spring for the MiniDSP.
Instead of buying flex i could just buy subwoofer with hps/lps and expect similar results?
No!!! The MiniDSP offers way, way more parameters you will need if you want to get optimal integration of the subwoofer with the speakers, including:
1. User specified crossover frequencies that can be independently selected for each channel.
2. A large number of different user selectable crossover topologies and slopes, which also can be independently selected for each channel.
3. User specified time delay for each channel - this is extremely beneficial.
4. Dirac Live as an option, which can EQ the system for your room, seating position, etc.
After upgrading my system by replacing my old preamp with the MiniDSP SHD, and hearing the results, I never again will use a subwoofer without a MiniDSP or something else providing at least the same level of DSP control. Previously, I was using the subwoofer to provide the crossover. I was not able to get the speakers and subwoofer in phase, nor get a level frequency response in the crossover region. The bass response was muddy and unnatural sounding. The bass response of my system now, after tuning with the MiniDSP, is significantly better than it was - much tighter, clean and natural sounding.
As a side note, in my system I got the best bass response by plugging the ports of my bookshelf speakers. I used some dense foam.