That's awesome. It's nice to see someone happy with their audio and music, and great to see a place like this can help.
Which, for me, brings up all the issues of "what do I want from my sound system?" Ultimately I want "good sound" and I think, at bottom, that's what most of us want. Even though we may diverge here and there on what gets us there.
There is a mindset, represented often here, that the goal is "accuracy." I just want to hear what's in the source with as little distortion - hence greatest accuracy - as possible. So one chases components with as little deviation from linearity etc as possible.
So..."once I know I have an accurate system I can relax, not worry about things, sit back and enjoy the music."
That certainly works for a particular mindset. And some seem to believe this is a sort of recipe for "getting off the gear treadmill of chasing 'sound' (associated with audiophile subjectivism) instead of 'accuracy.'" But, again, though that may work for some people, like different diets, it doesn't work for all.
After all: One can also "get off" the chasing equipment treadmill by simply lowering one's standards of what they demand as well. My wife is very "off the equipment treadmill" as she completely enjoys music from a laptop or our smart speaker, without any itch at all to upgrade to something "more accurate." So even going the "more accuracy" route will often keep someone quite gear-focused. And as accuracy increases, you have similar impetus to keep an eye on advances in gear and upgrade along the way. And there are plenty of subjectivist audiophiles who have been very satisfied owning the same gear for decades as well. One approach to finding satisfaction does not fit all; depends on the individual mindset in any case.
The thing is that "Sounds Good" can be separated from "Accuracy." Accuracy does not automatically entail "good sound." So if we have a choice...what would it be, and why? (That is not to suggest, btw, that "accuracy does not sound good," only that it is a separable subject from what people may find pleasing or "good sound.")
Personally, I'm settling toward a "what do I enjoy?" "What sounds good to me" approach. The reason is that accuracy as a goal, while a laudable north star, ultimately disappears down a rabbit hole in terms of actually achieving this. (You aren't going to truly escape the "circle of confusion," especially when you follow the logic "to what end do I care about accuracy in the first place?"). Though I retain a keen interest in how technology advances to lower distortion, with audible results.
This doesn't lead me only to wanting terribly coloured sound quality. I can enjoy speakers, for instance, that are "more accurate" and some that are "less accurate/more colored" depending if they push some of my joy-buttons. But while, in the case of enjoying a bit of a colored sound, I accept some compromise in accuracy, in my view it is not much of a compromise. The type of colorations I may enjoy are utterly swamped in sonic importance by the sonic signature of the artistic content. I'm hearing all the artistic choices on the track. And enjoying them.
In contrast, the accuracy-is-all-that-counts person accepts sonic compromises when the system "accurately" exposes the poor sound of a badly produced/recorded/mastered track.
Of course this person can always say "but I can just re-EQ those tracks if I want to, to make them sound better." Which is of course fine...but then don't say that you are all about "accuracy" if you are so ready to alter the sound to your taste ;-). You may do it with an EQ, I may do it with some slight coloration in a speaker or tube amp or whatever. (And the "but I can defeat the EQ at any time" rebuttal, making my system more flexible" really doesn't address the meat of the issue. Once you are introducing EQ to taste sometimes, you are altering the sound to taste. Even if you don't do this all the time, or often, on what principled grounds can you defend this against the preference-loving audiophile?
"Well, I only alter the sound to taste *sometimes*. Well...who exactly made you the arbiter as to when the sound can be altered or not? It seems completely arbitrary, for instance "I like some bass punch and if a track is really missing that I'll add some." How is that any more principled from someone who says
"I like a full-bodied sound, generally speaking, and this speaker with a bit of coloration adds that. ?
So I generally approach a system as to how much I enjoy it, and there tend to be sonic characteristics that I enjoy - for instance when I hear acoustic guitars or other acoustic instruments with a certain "right-to-my-ears" tonal quality, some body to the sound, dynamic life, etc, or just noticing that something is pulling me in to wanting to keep listening in a way some other system isn't.
I have a number of different speakers all of which have, in their own way, a bit of "magic tone" for me, that draw me in to sit down and spend long time listening. I just came back from a friend's house (reviewer) listening to 3 different expensive speakers. They were impressive in many ways, but I wouldn't take a single one if you gave it to me. None made me want to keep listening. They were tonally artificial and uninvolving for me. I came home, fired up my system and it was "aaaahhhh...." I couldn't stop listening.
Anyway, random thoughts from an audio-loving geek, which occasionally go against the grain here
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