Anthropic principle - if it never happened, we wouldn't be here talking about it. All we can say for sure is that of millions of species on earth, only one has gone technological.
True of course, although it could be the case that a planet is only ever likely to host one technological species at any time. Once one gets there, no other has a chance. Otoh, there definitely are other intelligent species on Earth. The Octopus is a very intelligent (and quite alien lol) creature. But further to the point I was trying to make, it's just something I was ruminating about the other day really...just thinking about the notion that we might be the only intelligent species in the whole universe (or Galaxy even). In a way, it seems to me that our existence combined with the fact that we've figured out how to get from our planet to the Moon and beyond - it just seems like that implies that the universe is sort of "set up" in favor of life. It seems to me to be at least as unlikely that it would only happen once as that it would happen over and over again all over the place. What are the chances that the ONLY intelligent species in the whole damn barnyard would actually manage to get off the planet?
Now it could be the case that we've benefitted from a bunch of random lucky breaks that made our progress possible and that without all those coincidental bennies it just can't happen. But I generally adhere to the mediocrity principle ftmp. We may be lucky enough to live in a nice comfy little cosmic bubble here, but it's probably not the
nicest little bubble in the whole cosmos. There's probably bubbles out there that are even more comfy and homey for life to blossom in...
The UFO thing is difficult. On the one hand it's easy to dismiss much of it as goofy silliness. Otoh,
if some super inteligent species had sent out Aritificially Intelligent probes to "keep an eye" on the galactic neighborhood, they might behave a lot like some of the things the Navy pilots are running across...