You may well be right in some or all of that.
It doesn’t change the fact that some people are treating the curve as something other than a preference curve, when that’s not what its creators have claimed.
Fwiw, here is some of what Harman is claiming...
They're claiming that it is "very neutral and accurate" for a majority of listeners, which goes well beyond the notion of just a preference curve.
And it also seems fairly clear from some of Omid's other comments above that some of their objectives for their target headphone response curve were also to reduce the coloration in headphones to better approximate the response of neutral loudspeakers in a room. And if that is their stance, then I think it's fair game to discuss, debate and question the reliability and precision of their results in all of the above respects. Others may (and do seem) to disagree though.
If they had simply said, "it's just about people's preferences, and accuracy and neutrality wasn't really of our goal", then maybe you'd have a somewhat stronger case for your above argument, Yorkshire Mouth. If you look at the actual research though, much of it is was clearly centered around the measured responses of loudspeakers in a room. Because that's the type of sound that the subjects in their early tests clearly seemed to prefer.
And while they did find some fairly noteworthy discrepancies among certain groups of listeners, whether those later tests showed any meaningful variations among the
general population is harder to establish. Because the system they were using for their in-ear tests of both headphones and loudspeakers wasn't designed to be that accurate in the frequency ranges where these variations might have occurred. And because the discrepancies in many of the studies were fairly small. So more work really needs to be done to further refine, and confirm or deny their previous results. Preferably with a somewhat better designed measurement rig.
I understand, btw, why Harman is interested in both accuracy and preference. Because there are consumers and markets for both types of products.
I personally don't care about the subjective preferences though. All I really want to know is-- how do several good pairs of neutral loudspeakers with a flat direct response, good bass extension, and a fairly (though not necessarily perfectly) linear off-axis response measure at the eardrum when they're put into a typical semi-reflective domestic listening space. And I'd love it if sites like ASR, Rtings, Head-Fi, Headphonesdotcom, Oratory, Crin, and the manufacturers of the rigs used by these folks (HBK, GRAS, Head Acoustics...), and maybe also Harman would all put their heads together, and try to figure that out a little better. So we'd have a better and more widely compatible and reproducible standard for this sort of thing.
Since this is clearly something that
alot of other folks are also interested in, I don't really know why something like this hasn't already been done before. And why there's so much resistance to it.
Until such a time as something like that happens though, I guess the Harman curve is probably it (unless you're open to some other "whacky" altermatives,
like the ones I've been discussing recently a little
here).