I wanted to even out the dispersion by adding a tweeter. I utilized a 4th order acoustic slope crossover at 2 kHz. I figured this would be easy and effective. It seemed natural to utilize the 7 element bessel arrays that use 6 drivers and have a hole in the middle: a great place to put a tweeter.
I figured out from simulation that it was advantageous to put the tweeter closer to the side of the array that was all positive. I grew the array to allow a significant off-center placement of the tweeter. This still yielded some interference issues at the crossover frequency.

I tried trying to keep the array short and compact, even though this only allowed for a minimal tweeter offset. This time the interference issues are a bit different, and more symmetrical, but still present.

I checked to see if the 5 element bessel would behave better. I had to separate the drivers a bit to make room for the tweeter. In this case, I found I had to put the tweeter between the 2 positive, full power drivers. This yields a fairly wide range of angles that are neutral, but there would still be a major spike in the directivity. Still, this may be the best option I've simulated.

One of the nice things about the 5 element bessel is the potential to get a reasonable impedance by utilizing 16 ohm drivers. Adding that 6th driver in parallel for the 7 element bessel would drive impedance to an uncomfortably low level.
I think voodooless made a good choice with the 16 ohm faitalpro. As a bessel array, I estimate the sensitivity would be somewhere around 94 dB, which is why I had the SB Acoustics SB29RDNC-C000-4 in mind when I ran my sims. It has a small faceplate and high sensitivity, and can be crossed pretty low. If one were willing to accept a higher crossover frequency, there are a lot more options (including cheaper options).
I'm not sure where to go from here. I figured I'd post and start a discussion and perhaps a solution would reveal itself.
I did try a bessel array of tweeters, but the imperfections of the bessel array at reasonable in-home listening distances revealed itself again.