If you had read the revealing stories you would not ask this question.
I just read f.e. the story of solderdude proving that his truth is the "one" by tricking a customer who also wanted to be nice to an employer/adviser that came servicing him; From my perspective a real salesman that cannot be trusted because he doesn't trust others and just seeking for evidence that he is "right". I would not call this story as revealing but just manipulating. For sound differences you have to convince yourself by listening to your music, not by listening to others. If you don't hear a difference during extensive listening on your own in your home environment; it's OK, if you; do it's also OK. Don't let anyone talk you into it or out of it!
The hearings sense did not evolve for listening to music or measuring sounds but for survival.
I agree on the music (=emotion) part. Communication improved survival
(don't get the relevance of communication in a discussion on audio quality as communication these days is all about quantity and whether we will survive with it I doubt very much) so the human hearing sense developed
(on this site I get the impression it has not developed, that it can be fooled (of course), and that we have to stand up against this phenomenon en we only can rely on measurements) into what it is today, and why music has an emotional impact on humans is yet unknown (as far as I know). In some respects the combination of 2 ears and a brain work wonders. e.g. when suppressing reflections in rooms. In other respects the hearing sense is very unreliable and inprecise, e.g. detecting absolute frequencies or timing, and do not forget the masking effects which even work backwards in time (and allowed lossy compression in the first place). You cannot just ignore all those shortcomings.
(Excuse me!! , the hearing sense is extremely sensitive for timing errors and non harmonic distortions. This sense is made to survive, you can even enjoy a Vinyl record with it's noise but still hear a lot of detail in the recording because your hearing system can filter the noise out. It's like surviving in the wind but have to be alert for "abnormal dangerous sounds"; Our brain was trained to do so. To enjoy music we do not have to hear absolute frequencies but our hearing system is extremely sensitive for distortions that are not natural that can spoil the perception and cause listening fatigue.
Of course I trust my logic more than my ears. You do so as well - or do you still believe the earth is flat (your eyes certainly tells you so), and the landing on the moon was filmed by Stanley Kubrick in a film studio (You haven't been on the moon so you cannot trust that others were there)? I don't think I fool myself when I don't rely on my senses in those cases where I know they cannot be trusted.
I enjoy a sun-downer at the beach and it looks flat (I am fooled !) and very beautiful. Knowing the earth isn't flat doesn't improve my perception. In other words: measuring and knowing the absolute frequency of a sound doesn't make it's perception any worse or better.
The better alternative exists,
@amirm has one (AP555), I have one (RME ADI-2 PRO fs), a few other members as well.
As soon as they are able to measure the audible effects of f.e. an ethernet cable in an audio setup I might become interested. Till that time I will only trust on my own auditory system.
You wrote that you're an EE. If you really stick to your personal sensory perception systems I assume that you measure the voltage of batteries by licking
(works roughly with 9V block batteries). I prefer to use a much more precise voltage meter.