Subs with dual opposed drivers are probably your best bet for performance in a small form factor, but at relatively great expense. Kef in particular have invested in this technology, with results like this KC62. From the measurwments it looks like response is remarkably flat and reachrs quite low, but only at modest spl. Add a second one (which you should do anyway) and you have rather more spl.
Yea for whatever reason the big sub has never given me a sense of “precision” compared to smaller sealed subs - don’t know if that’s “real” or just perceptual due to it going much deeper linearly, and the sealed ones having more of an accentuated bump.
Either way my room isn’t huge and my listening volume generally doesn’t exceed mid 80’s dB. That doesn’t account for peaks ofc. Not sure how loud peaks be average volume the kef can handle and still retain lower extension than my speakers.
Loud listening for me is usually about 84db with peaks of 101db Roughly. And I do listen to bass heavy electronic music at times - as well as bass light metal that needs the reinforcement, so to speak.
Seems a lot of smaller/sealed subs I’ve tried sound nice, but when measured, basically just add a bump around where the speakers also roll off, but don’t add much actual extension.