Not sure I agree, but I'm guessing our views are actually similar . In my view, sight drastically alters what we "hear". It doesn't alter the sound waves entering our ear(which I think is what you're saying), but it does alter the processing of those waves by the brain. Same sound waves processed differently are "heard" differently.
This I fully agree. Watching + listening to a performance does have a different experience compared to just listening. To me (solely myself), its the experience that really matters.