Wow that is a lot. Our detached house is almost as large (but two storeys). Average annual electricity consumption in the Netherlands is about 3000 KWh per household, but we don't really have/need domestic airconditioners until now. Heating is from natural gas, on average about 2000 cubic metres. Both domestic electricity and gas consumption have declined by a few percent each year thanks to more efficient equipment and better mandatory home insulation in more recently built houses. An interesting anecdote is our new vacuum cleaner. The old one was a 1200 watt one from a very well respected manufacturer. The new one meets the recent EU electricity consumption limit of 600 watt for vacuum cleaners, is much lighter to lift, very much quieter, and actually cleans better (it was also rather cheaper). Similarly, I recently looked up the electricity consumption of modern refrigerators. Modern ones in the same size consume about a third of what our current fifteen year old one does. So there is clear technological improvement, both from market forces (low energy consumption sells) as from regulation.