No, that is what you think headphones are for. You speak in absolutes with your opinion, while telling others their thoughts are wrong. If you view a pair of headphones in that manner that is perfectly acceptable for you, and I would not tell you you're wrong. Please show the same courtesy and respect to my thoughts as well.No, you are having trouble with this analogy because it doesn't work and it isn't apt.
Car color is entirely subjective. The color car you choose is just an expression of your aesthetic preference and you know it has nothing to do with anything else.
But headphones are for reproduction. This is what baffles me about these discussions: people start talking about them like they're creative instruments or some expression of preference as subjective as color. Stop thinking about headphones as expensive toys, furniture, bling, or whatever is in your head and reduce it first to just a device for reproducing a signal. I'm not saying you're not allowed to want it to look good but first and foremost it's a device for reproducing a signal.
So, lets take your car color analogy. I bet car manufacturers do do research on preferred color and paint their cars accordingly, because bright pink probably isn't as popular as just plain black or navy. So they would be stupid to produce the same number of cars in bright pink as black or navy. All the most preferred colors would sell out first and all you'd be left with is the least preferred colors. Do you see? So in a car magazine they might mark it down by saying "they sent us a black one but you can't actually get it in this color any more, the only colors left are bright pink, mint green, and fire orange so we can't recommend it to most people unless you love it so much you can afford to repaint".
Additionally, though color is a frequency spectrum, preference for color doesn't necessarily follow any rules regarding affinity of shades and tones the way @L0rdGwyn tried to claim. So sure, grey is closer to black than red in that both grey and black are both entirely desaturated, but that has no bearing on my preference. If I said I like red and black but not grey you can't say "but grey is closer to black than red'. It doesn't work like that.
Do you see now that your apparently "apt" analogy doesn't work at all?
You can pick apart an analogy as much as you like, put words in bold or quotes, but it doesn't change that for me, it worked well. In fact, you reinforced my thoughts by your response more than changed them.