Now every room is different and it takes experience to hear what is causing the biggest problem, but IME it usually is NOT the frequency domain, but the time domain.
I looked at your measurements and I see a big problem in the time domain you might want to investigate further (by using the ears):
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Pay attention to the 40 ms time window:
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Here is the initial slice:
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The measurement IMO shows 2 probably significant problems:
The 60 Hz range:
it becomes roughly 4 dB LOUDER, after 40 ms, than any bass region before.
The 60 Hz are very important for kicks, many kicks have the most energy in exactly that region. If bass is perceived in a room as professionally punchy sounding, is not so much dependent on the frequency response, but that the kick's fundamental does not become louder over time, but hits and vanishes.
I can't go into too much detail of audio production, but as a rough general rule our hearing prefers a frequency response that looks similar to pink noise and not some frequencies sticking out like a thumb.
Look at the 40ms slice: in that case the 60 becomes extremely dominant: roughly 15 dB louder than the 80-100 region and it also dominates the subbass.
I would not be very surprised, if certain 58-60 kicks do sound powerful, but not in a professional manner.
What you want to to achieve, is to get that late 60 peak under control:
You don't need a flat decay response, all you have to do is, that you aim for a result, where the 60 does not become as hugely dominant, so that it looks more like a slope with the surrounding frequencies and does not overshoot everything else.
This is done either with EQing, or/and or sub placement and/or using the 2nd sub.
Use your ears to determine, which solution offers the best compromise.
Do
not focus on a flat frequency response, focus on the perceived punch and precision of the kick.
And last but not least:
as reference material, do not use in your room good sounding mixes, but use a decent mix with a kick that sounds problematic, because of that late 60 Hz buildup.
The 30 range:
The second problem I see is the roughly 7 dB louder buildup @30 Hz. It's a bit excessive, but you probably don't hear it, because of the very dominant 60 Hz buildup. If you get that 60 Hz peak int he time domain under control, you should be able to hear, that the 30 is a bit too much.
To be able to hear the 60 problem better, I'd cut the 30, or highpass @25 as first measure, deal with the 60 and then come back to balance the 30 with the rest.