But you know what? The more I think about the more I abandon the idea of visible stuff. And truth be told such a room would need some serious size gear to fill if done properly.
I admit I'm at a dilemma and I'll probably end up to make a corner with something super nice looking and small, with the SQ being my last concern.
....(that's me, right? I don't judge)
Yeah, I'm not judging either. It's just that you raised an issue that is as old as the hills, WAF, and in your case also SAF (Self Acceptance Factor).
That's why hifi gear tends to look like furniture compared to studio gear. Grill cloths. Wood grain. Gloss polished. Tall and thin. Floorspace considerations.
I believe the products have evolved in style to match the trends in decor. But WAF will always head in the direction of no hifi at all, because a non-audio person could always find something more attractive to do with that space. So, the only question is compromise, or no compromise. No compromise in favour of non-audio means no gear. No compromise in favour of audio means whatever gear sounds best to oneself, regardless of appearance. If WAF (or SAF) is uncompromisingly non-audio, then that's that.
But that has always been the story, even when stereo was ubiquitous.
It seems that you already have a dedicated audio room, and the question here is for a new room in which audio is secondary. I don't see anything new in your story that relates more to today than it did in the past.
As for your new room, or anyone else in the same situation, high quality MCH is definitely still an option. Have you any idea just how good is the best in-wall and in-ceiling audio? I think you might be shocked. And if you think 100 m2 is too big for in-wall, then take a look at
JBL Synthesis or a competitor.
More than good enough.
My conclusion is that MCH is not making things so bad that it is the reason audiophilia is shrinking. Audiophiles have always been a small minority of people who enjoy listening to recorded music. The challenges we face getting audio into our homes in an acceptable way have always been there. The solutions have evolved to match the challenge, even with MCH.
cheers