Aside from frequency response issues with the mobile- phone mics, I suspect, there might be some automatic gain control (AGC) involved. Also most phones have at least 2 mics in order to suppress ambient sounds. I have no idea if Android allows the WiiM App to switch to a single microphone - ideally the one located at the top of the phone.
I think WiiM pretty much knew that with such a large zoo of Android phones RC might be "difficult" - carefully speaking. Maybe, they added the feature to use the mic inside the WiiM device, since this will be a lot more consistent.
Unfortunately it's not possible to use the Mic in the Remote-Control; this would need the mic being located at the tip of the RC, an ADC and some memory in the Remote-Control. The data could easily be transferred to the WiiM via Bluetooth.
This wold be my proposal for a future Remote-Control
My results using my phone (Google Pixel 5) were really discouraging - it just did not at sound right after RC - so I ordered a UMIK-1
@GarrardZero100: There will be some change in the frequency response when you take the microphone out of the WiiM and operate it externally. The baffle the WiiM provides leads to a shelf-filter like characteristic for the mic inside the WiiM Pro. WiiM may have corrected for this "baffle-step" in software. In case they did, you would end up with a wrong frequency response with the mic operated outside the WiiM housing. This baffle-step should however be located in the kHz region for the dimensions of the WiiM Pro.
Literature on this:
https://www.jobst-audio.de/en/articles/measurement-development/bafflestep-bassstack