While I slept, some of you brought up questions about performer effects on timbre or the role of performer in timbre. These arguments have merit, primarily because they focus our attention on the actual production of the sound(s) on to which timbral descriptions might be hung.
For the sake of argument, allow me to temporarily adopt a combined timbre/envelope view of timbre. I use violin only because it provides an easy case study. Most other instruments are also "timbre malleable" depending on the means of excitation chosen. N.b., timbre does depends on manner of excitation, not on envelope, which is a product of the same choice of means.
When someone talks about violin timbre to a violinist, the violinist could easily ask” WHICH timbre were you talking about: the standard bowed timbre (arco), or pizzicato, or col legno. etc.?” There are dozens of conventional techniques for squeezing sound (and thus timbre) out of a violin, each with it’s own characteristic timbre
and envelope.
Yet the average listener to classical music would recognize the violin’s timbre with all but the most atypical performing techniques. In this context, conflating timbre and envelope is an unnecessary complication, which is why I argue for envelope as an independent, but closely coupled aspect of musical sound; because it is.
In simple terms, the player controls sound production, consequently affecting timbre and envelope independently if in closely associated ways.
Coincidence or correlation is not proof of causality (added: or entanglement).
The violin techniques mentioned above can all be notated by the composer, conductor, section leader, or individual player. To some degree they modify the characteristic timbre and define (or constrain) the envelope. The degree to which these choices apply to sampled or synthesizsed sound depends on the depth (and ready availability) of envelope parameters in the player interface. Some of the physical modeling schemes are quite capable of convincing envelope analogs, but only to the extent the player interface allows.
Responding here to a recent post regarding piano and guitar; The two instruments (the piano especially) almost give credence to the ADSR model, but they are anomalous instruments (again the "unprepared" piano, particularly). Unfortunately, they are favorite instruments of theorists and academics, who are prone to treat them as representative, rather than as well populated ghettos in the diverse world of music instruments.

Theories which rely too heavily on them are immediately suspect.