I got a watt meter and here's my testing.
Devices
TV - 55 inch Sony 100 watts
Streamer - not that much wattage
Denon 4800h (Pre/Pro) - 60 watts idle
Marantz SR8002 (amp) - 50 watts idle bi-amping LCR for LLCRR.
SVS 3000 Micro - 15-25 watts idle (I saw different values depending on prior usage or just turning it on)
Speaker Crossovers
Fronts Full Range
Center 60hz
Surrounds 80hz
TESTING
Movies
I did hit 600 watts briefly watching Disney+ Rise of Skywalker in the beginning scene with Palpatine and Kylo Ren. My sub was at -20db - I removed it by lowering volume to -60db (no bass). And it dropped to under 300 watts. So the AVR is idling (more on that later). I didn't measure levels but sound travels a lot through my house and everyone was upset at me - it was 80db to 90+db with highs.
So most of the wattage usage came from the sub.
The TV, the AVR, and AMP idle consume 230 watts so ~70 watts for DD+ processing and sound with bi-amped LR Full Range from the AVR and AMP. That surprised me a bit and I don't feel I'm getting the full monte in movies as I used to with my LR. I have room extension to nearly 20hz so those things should sound like subs or at least play 40hz well.
Music
I also played stereo music (82db for 2 meters away) with a lot of bass (Das Boot DJ Mellow Mix 5th minute) and it was using 250 watts with the sub on. I'll do more testing and maybe a more demanding tune. The family will have to be away.
Gaming
PS5 Astrobot main planet - 480-500 watts at decent levels.
Conclusions
I need to test music more and figure out why there is such a drop without the sub which is expected but my system is using 4 channels full range and should be drawing more power. I would have expected the AVR to be using a lot more power in full range mode.
For most people who do not bi-amp with crossovers at 80hz or 100hz, the demand on the AVR is almost minimal unless you play very loud. I'd worry about the 85 inch TV using more power than your AVR.
As for overloading the 15A outlet. Apparently, the 15A outlet (assuming it's 15A as my electrical panel has lots of 20A, 30A, and even 50A outlets but I'll figure that out too) is thermally limited (not power limited to 1,800 watts), meaning it can exceed 1,800 watts briefly until it overheats and the circuit trips. Since it has never tripped in 20 years, that means I've never exceeded its limits, at least not long enough to do that. So not much point going to 20A since I don't exceed the limits but I still have lots of equipment (console, TV, streamer, pre/pro, AVR, sub). I'll also have to check if the circuit handles the entire living room which would include a lot more devices and light fixtures.