This is a thread I started for the question to discuss I am interested in. It is about the measurable characteristics which have an influence on the sound besides FR (Harman curve) and distortion,
Title of the thread :
"What else matters on the sound of a headphone besides the Harman curve and distortion?"
You concern, in your original post :there are people saying that if two completely different headphones follow both reasonably well the Harman curve (or can be through EQ brought to do so) and have sufficiently low distortion, they should sound the same. This would be the reducionist stance. I doubt that is true, since there are other, more subjetivist, criteria, like soundstage, imaging, transient decay and others, that should matter, although apparently it is for many of those criteria not fully understood how to measure these. But for example an electrostatic headphone has very fast transient decay and brings a feeling of naturalism that others are not capable of. And equally EQed Sennheiser HD650 and HD800s should still have a different soundstage.
The answer we've repeatedly tried to convey to you : they don't sound the same, because, for a start, they still won't have the same FR at your own eardrum. Simple.
What you call "fitting" is to a great extent directly responsible for it. And that phenomenon is, to a certain extent, measurable (it's already largely been demonstrated at lower frequencies).
Hence why it should be the number one priority for you to look into. Simple.
Once that variable is controlled (ie two headphones effectively having the same FR at your own eardrum), only then can you start considering others as the potential causes for the residual differences they may still exhibit. Simple.
Now you can continue to ignore that issue, but then you'll be chasing ghosts as you'll be facing a multitude of uncontrolled variables, and wasting your own time. Your choice.