In practice, I mean in a normal livingroom not dedicated to stereo system only, practical positioning and acoustics dictate things to some extent, and here the equilateral triangle loses it's meaning. While sound could be best with equilateral triangle, it necessarily isn't. In this case it is better to deviate if it sounds better within the context one has to deal with.
Best example is where people have to put speakers quite close to each other compared to distance to listening position, many many people have this as per the poll. The sound would be quite unsatisfactory if it was anechoic environment, too narrow at widest. But since regular rooms with typical furnishing are quite reflective the stereo image could be just fine, bad early reflection dominated sound still but it doesn't feel too narrow due to loud early reflections. Because the early reflections dominate the perception listened so far away, I'd argue basewidth between speakers doesn't change sound that much, be it equilateral or bit wider or narrower, it's still the hazy sound that magically extends beyond speakers. Triangle becomes more important as the early reflections suppress, either by positioning or acoustics, so that brain pays attention to the direct sound and suppresses the effect of early reflections from perception. Now narrow base width makes narrow image, wide makes wide, so adjust for preference, or for the standard. On close listening distance on can adjust the system for both direct sound balance and for envelopment, and adjusting toe-in and base width, along with good off-axis response, allows this.
ps. I have cardioid mid and waveguide tweeter speakers, so quite high DI system compared to most typical home speakers, so reduced early reflections. With these the good sound, where early reflections suppress, extend about to 2.2m listening distance (from ear to speaker), which makes quite small listening triangle. I suspect that some livingrooms and some speakers this distance is even shorter, so listening triangle should be very small, so speaker positioning is not practical anymore, sofa too close to the TV. Also, there is a rug between TV and sofa, and this alone makes listening distance too far from sofa so early reflections dominate/affect the perception quite alot. I would either need to bring speakers or sofa middle of the rug to fix this. And from this remark I think rugs are more detrimental for sound than useful, if the rug forces too long listening distance. Rug is said to help with floor early reflection, but as a side effect through listening distance it would maximize effect of early reflections instead, ever thought about that?
If someone wants a rug, make sure it doesn't force to use long listening distance as it makes all early reflections worse
Conversely, short listening distance is more important than a rug. Perhaps just take a chair or a foot rest to the close listening distance on the rug, when ever there is need and time for good listen. Adjust your triangle to support this close listening distance, where it has great impact on how wide the sound is (at widest).