There are such things as musical subwoofers... In my experience, the cone material also plays a huge role. Personally, I swear by aluminum cones.
Would this be akin to many people being fans of Beryllium tweeters? My question would be, if a note is played and it is of a certain hz, and that hz is faithfully reproduced - as far as we know/measure - why does it matter what material is making that note? I ask because these qualitative reviewers always talk about "weight," "tone," and "punchiness," but all the measurements between the 3 subs are really really similar. Arguably, the sb1000 pro should be the MOST musical of the bunch...yet they claim the complete opposite. Is it possible that there are other factors that we have yet to identify as measurable, that are perhaps giving people the belief that they are hearing a difference?
How are you planning to handle the crossover between the speakers and the subwoofer? Just using the subwoofer's built-in low-pass? Proper integration typically requires a proper crossover (both low-passing the subwoofer and high-passing the mains) as well as some sort of EQ or room correction to help with the peaks (and dips, to a lessor extent) that are inevitable in any home setup due to room modes.
Forgive me again, as I am technologically disinclined...but I am trying really hard to learn and retain as much information as I can. I don't have a microphone, nor do I really understand how to go about doing measurements and making changes. As for the subwoofer...From what I have read, my old HT AVR will need to be set at small speakers, and because my speakers go down to about 80hz (flat response, drops from there), I would set the pass at around 95hz (I was recommended 10-15hz above dropoff point). As for placement, I was going to place the sub in the listening position, play some test tones at 30hz, 50hz, 70hz, and walk around the room with decibel meter app on my phone to see where the sub output is loudest - once I find where that area is, I would put the subwoofer there. Then I would play some music through the entire system to confirm the phase alignment.
I suppose one other dumb question while I am here, would be what connection would be ideal. A lot of people using REL subs say that you should split the front speaker cables into high level input which gives full range of musical information, and wire your subwoofer...I don't know what to make of this. Then there is the Line In input, which is white. But then there is LFE which is red. Are you supposed to plug red and white in together, or pick one? Which is actually best? I've never owned a subwoofer, so feel free to laugh.