Thanks @Roland68. 5V trigger worked flawlessly in the 12v Mini circuit with a little fake out as it came on within 2 seconds but took 20 minutes to turn off. Turns out the Node has a 20 min delay before the turn off trigger. Problem solved.You can try it out first. Some 12-volt triggers also respond to 5 volts.
Alternatively, you could get an inexpensive 5-to-12-volt DC-DC converter from AliExpress.
Or you could get a 5-volt relay board and a small 12-volt switching power supply (really small), connect it to the trigger input, and use the relay board to switch the mains voltage.