I looked at the XLR cabling,
Can you link any articles?
But surely there are some fully balanced amplifiers that do not convert the signal, those very expensive McIntosh, Accuphase, D'agostino?
Please don't be mad at me, but that's no use, I don't have the time to start from scratch.
At ASR and Google you can find hundreds of posts/pages on the subject and it's not an easy field. Many manufacturers have already failed on this topic. The Elliott/esp page should also be helpful for you. But you will find little to nothing about why this is such a bad idea with so many disadvantages, you have to work that out for yourself.
McIntosh definitely not, you should see that at first glance when you look at the back of the MA8950 AC.
Accuphase always had stereo volume potentiometers, so not either. I can't say for the new volume control, probably not, but a look at the circuit diagrams/service manuals should clarify things for you.
The small signal range of the D'agostino integrated amplifier could actually be completely symmetrical internally. I heard the amplifier at a demonstration this year without knowing what kind of amplifier it was. I only saw that later in the pictures I took for documentation. It wasn't spectacular for me, nor did it make an impression. The measurements given aren't bad, but at that price? Oh well.
But it doesn't change the fact that you're chasing a white rabbit and wasting your time (and maybe money) on something that's absolutely pointless. You have a thought in your head that only you can free yourself from, because you're already resistant to any advice and experience.
Two more comments on that.
1. In the pro audio sector, too, there are only symmetrical cable transmissions and no symmetrical signal processing. Here, too, the signals are symmetrical at the output and de-symmetrical at the input.
You do realize that all the music you hear was produced this way. And the signals were really converted in this way countless times. And you think that one thing would change anything?
2. I actually once thought that symmetrical signal processing was the holy grail. Then we started a project on the topic, in which several measurement technology engineers, manufacturers and application developers were involved. Everyone involved assumed that this would take us a significant step forward in development.
The result was simple and meaningful, absolute nonsense. Lots of sources of problems and stumbling blocks and nothing to gain.
But never hold up travelers.