I have come to this disturbing conclusion too. I got a Marantz SA12SE and a Denon DCD-1700NE, played the same CDs and heard clear differences. My experiences have been posted on another thread here.
I saw that those who believe that all DACs sound the same have bias too, just like the subjective-listening guys. Now I know I have no friends, because both camps are just that -- they are camps. If you're not a member, you're not wanted.
This is Audio SCIENCE Review.
Of course NOT EVERYTHING sounds the same but the fact is that most electronics are better than human hearing unless you overdrive an amp into clipping (distortion) or if you intentionally alter the sound with tone controls or EQ, etc.
And sometimes there is audible noise (hum, hiss, or whine, in the background). All active analog electronics generate some noise and if you hear it or not, or the noise from one device has more noise than the other it's pretty obvious. But it's tricky because whether it's audible or not depends on the sensitivity of your speakers (or headphones), how close you are to your speaker, and other acoustic noise in the room, etc.
We are skeptical when someone uses undefined "audiophile terminology" like "warmth" or "detail" or if they think a DAC is affecting soundstage or other things that are virtually impossible to be affected by a DAC, etc.
...Just because someone says "detail" (which isn't defined* or measurable) doesn't mean the listener isn't hearing something but it's not really useful and I'm usually skeptical, especially with a sighted listening test or when they don't have measurements.
Audiophoolery describes the FEW REAL characteristics of sound quality.
Listening tests are fine as long as they are blind and controlled. Casual, sighted, uncontrolled listening tests are useless. ...Unless you are hearing a gross defect like a buzz in one channel, or no sound out of one channel, or no bass, etc.
What is a blind ABX test?.
Controlled Audio Blind Listening Tests
Nothing “sounds” the same, not even two copies of the same model of device.
Usually they do, in proper blind listening tests. If you "can't detect it", reliably and repeatably you aren't "hearing" it. And these imagined differences shouldn't dictate what you spend your money on.
* Dan Clark (headphone manufacturer) has a video where he says headphones with more distortion are sometimes described as "more detailed"!