I posit that many things might contribute to sound stage. Phase shifts, Q sound encoding, volume, speaker position, room behaviour etc. In the end what matters with regards to it is my perception of how the individual instruments are delineated and where they appear to be emanating from in the room itself.Honestly, I don't think you are helping your case here. You are asserting a lot of sound differences that are not readily identified or absent in electronics. I doubt, for instance, that you could identify MQA in a blind test (of music, not over-amplified residual noise). Not because I know anything about you, but because it is just very unlikely based on experience to-date. Soundstage is going to be dominated by room effects and speaker dispersion (presuming decent channel balance and flat FR, which is easily achieved in electronics).
At any rate, the usefulness of audiophile technology has been argued to a standstill in these pages. For the most part, when you can directly connect a measurable phenomenon with the term, it can be a useful shorthand with others who share that specific knowledge (as 'honky' and "shouty' typically describe specific frequency emphasis). Outside of that, as you say, they are "vague terms that can mean many things".
So if I am listening to something new, and the violin that plays off to the left side seems slightly further to the left and a little closer to the listening position relative to where the speaker sits.... then that is the best way to describe the effect. It is easier to explain and understand because it describes the net perceived effect of what all those other factors (each with their individual measurements) contribute to in terms of my perception of the music. And thus it is a perfectly useful way to describe my perceived change in sound or the characteristic of sound to another person. I'm describing what I perceive to be the difference in the location of the instruments in the recording.
I could also tell them I had measure a time alignment adjustment of blah, a phase shift of blah, my wall frequency absorption co-efficeint was blah, my speakers were at a 3 degree toe in and had an off angle attenuation characteristic across the audible frequency spectrum of this three dimensional chart.
Which one would better explain to someone how I felt the sound changed?