I think for a living room / listening room system one should go for reverb and early reflections that is more attenuated / absorbed at the hf to give a sloping freq / decay time.
There are arguments both ways so I tried it both ways, by varying the spectral balance of the reflected sound independent of the direct sound. My conclusions are a bit different from yours, but it may be that the most desirable spectral balance for the reverberant energy varies on a case-by-case basis, so in most of my designs it is user-adjustable.
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