Sorry is this was mentioned (no time to go through all 6 pages here) but, would the danger be more about the need to set your amp to full volume if using software to control volume? So you or a family member go to put on a CD or LP and BAAAAAAM!!!! I think control at amp is more a safety issue. The technology is such now that, if the amp has an app, the volume can be controlled there with no impact on quality. So I do all mine at amp. Also, with some older systems, this at amp app control does not work. So I have to set the software volume at full to get (close) to bit perfect. Then, control at amp.
I think this is called hardware volume control (or sometimes absolute volume control).
The app sends a separate command over the network directly to the amplifier's physical volume component. The digital audio stream itself remains at a maximum, uncompressed level (fixed volume output or "bit-perfect" streaming), which prevents the loss of audio quality associated with software-based volume reduction (when that is an issue).