Why would anyone mock you for using Spotify? I have evaluated Tidal, Apple Music and Qobuz and Spotify easily runs rings round them all with regard to ease of use, catalogue size, features, reliability, UI, and most importantly for me, discovery. I can't detect (with casual listening) any sound quality differences between these services that couldn't be my imagination or simply a different master, lossless or not.
My main rig is a NAD C658 with BluOS. My headphone rig is a Pi4 running Moode > Topping E30/L30. Mobile use is iPhone SE > Sony WH1000XM2 Bluetooth headphones.
Tidal, I found the web UI bland and discovery poor. Even after several weeks of assimilating a 'library' it still suggested the same R'n'B/Hiphop tracks that it did when first joining the service. Still not interested! Usability through BluOS was acceptable but, at least for the music I'm interested in, I would judge Tidal's library to be at least an order of magnitude smaller than Spotify's. I have a gigabit internet connection at home and in the short time I had Tidal I often experienced dropouts, connection errors and downtime. I didn't try it on mobile. I don't think I have ever experienced a dropout on Spotify either at home or on mobile in the five or so years I have used it. I would also prefer not to support MQA so Tidal is unsubscribed ...
While I have a M1 MacMini, a 15" Macbook Pro, 12" iPad Pro, iPhoneSE and AppleTV 4K within reach I found Apple's Music service singularly patchy and confusing. AppleTV is the only device that could be permanently connected (via HDMI > HDfury Diva > toslink) to the NAD but is nevertheless still clamped at 48 kHz - not that I claim to be able to hear any problems with that - but it seems unneccessary. Airplay works both directly to the NAD or via the AppleTV but Airplay has its own limitations and is not a great experience. Apple Music has some potentially useful discovery features but nothing that really betters Spotify. I found a small handful of releases available on Apple Music that were otherwise not available on Spotify but mostly the library was still obviously smaller than Spotify's. The two times I tried to use Apple Music on mobile it wouldn't connect at all ... Unsubscribed.
I'm still evaluating Qobuz. The BluOS experience is obviously similar to Tidal and as such works OK. The library seems to be similar in scope to Apple's - a small number of items that are not on Spotify but otherwise noticeably smaller. I think I hear a few of the Qobuz hires releases sound better/different to Spotify's versions. Probably due to different masters. Qobuz often has both multiple hires and normal CD-quality releases of the same album which seems unnecessary and confusing. Discovery seems more or less non-existant. I haven't unsubscribed from Qobuz yet but I'm not seeing or hearing any compelling reason to keep it.
This is not to say Spotify is perfect. It's constant fiddling with the features and interface can be annoying and more importantly it reportedly pays the least royalties back to the artists of all the services, which is worrisome. I wouldn't have a problem with a service that charged more for new releases (say under a year old) compared older (5+ years, 10+ years, 25+ years etc.) if I knew the different payment tiers actually went back to the artists.