Your entire argument is based on the claim that ASR has to build a bridge with the “Stereophile” world. You have yet to provide any persuasive support for why this is necessary, or even desirable.
Before you jump to the conclusion that I’m saying it’s good for there to be vilification and acrimony (a conclusion I’m guessing you’ll jump to no matter what I say, but I’ll hope for the best nonetheless
), let me clarify: I find the snarky rejoinders and “Stereophile is in its death throes” comments here to be unproductive, and I agree with you that sniping back and forth is pointless (although it is quite understandable).
Instead, my objection to your claim is that it’s just the converse of the attitude here that you’re criticizing: folks who are really upset about Austin’s petty little swipe implicitly want Stereophile to accept or respect ASR. So too does your desire for a “bridge,” and your fantasy about how Stereophile folks would be persuaded or throw in the towel if only ASR had a single “reference system,” implicitly aim for acceptance or respect by Austin et al for ASR.
But the Austin piece’s misunderstanding and disrespect for ASR (and Amir in particular) isn’t a secondary effect of a communication problem across two different hi-fi cultures: rather, the disrespect and dismissal is the entire point. It’s not a bug, it’s a feature.
Kal Rubinson is an active member here. John Atkinson looks in and posts now and then. And many members here are current or former Stereophile subscribers and readers of the audiophile press more generally. There’s already mutual understanding and intelligibility. We simply don’t agree.
If ASR can be a better resource for fulfilling its own vision and mission, then by all means let’s encourage it to improve or change accordingly. But to embark on some kind of project to choose “THE” best-sounding system based on what Stereophile reviewers would likely hear (let alone admit to) in subjective listening tests? That’s pointless, in fact worse than pointless, because it would go against the entire purpose of this site. We don’t say an AP analyzer sounds better than a real system. We say that high-quality measurement gear is capable of measuring equipment better and more consistenly than human ears are.
Pitying together a “reference” system would enable a Stereophile reviewer to dismiss everything here simply by saying that they didn’t love the sound of the particular DAC or amp or speakers (or interconnects!) we had chosen. And it would reinforce the idea that there’s an elite hi-fi priesthood that can tell you what the very best system is - an idea we oppose.