In my own adventures with calibrating, I have come to appreciate how tightly coupled placement, crossover region, and DSP strategy are in the low frequencies. Even relatively small changes in geometry, mechanical coupling, or measurement mic position can meaningfully alter what REW shows, particularly around deep nulls and modal peaks, which makes low frequency behavior highly location dependent. For that reason, I tend to treat stereo versus mono bass, crossover choices, and sub matrixing as room specific variables rather than starting with a strong preference for any single approach. I am still experimenting, but I try to let measurements steer my decisions instead of assuming that one topology is universally optimal. I have also found it invaluable to keep a simple journal so I can track what changes were made and what I actually observed each time I test a new variable, especially when using mixed feeds to the subs. It becomes even more complicated once you factor in the front speakers contribution in the bass region.