That dessert is pretty but I'd have no problems destroying it for the greater good of my satisfaction
Fetish is a good way to put it. These audiophool publications like the pretty pictures of rare expensive 'internals' that 99% of the consumers will never see because they don't disassemble their equipment, but knowing it has something 'rare' and 'expensive' inside is certainly a fetish.
I just boils down to status, it's a club that entitled people need to be a part of, they want 'the best' even though they don't even know what the best is technically, they just deduce it down to price and if it's expensive then it must be better and the bonus is you are now in the 'elitist' club of component bling bling.
I don't think the OP realizes that profit margin is set, if Revel MSRP is what it is with the current passive components in the balance network they aren't going to reduce profits to install parts that make no difference. If they want to cater to the market that wants component bling bling inside then they will just increase the MSRP cost to maintain the same profit margin, you'll just pay more for the bling. The OP is naive in that he feels they should just cut the profit margin in order to satisfy his 'fetish'. That's not how it works.