After reading through this discussion I decided to turn off my crosstalk reduction scheme and have a listen in normal 2 speaker mode for a while. I'm very sympathetic to Justdafactsmaam's perspective, because I really have found crosstalk reduction to work wonders on many recordings. But I'm also sympathetic to what goat76 and Suono are saying. Was it on this thread that somebody distinguished dual channel recordings from stereo? I think that's an important distinction. Stereo does not mean any specific number of channels, except that you do need at least two. So dual channel recordings can be stereo, but they aren't necessarily. If they're not, they may not sound good with crosstalk reduction. If they are, I would posit that crosstalk reduction is generally an enhancement. Crosstalk is never good for real stereophonic effects on 2 channels. It doesn't help at all. It gets in the way to some degree, but as Suono and others have made clear, you can get beautiful results that reveal a sense of 3D space in a well setup room. Properly controlled room reflections can be a real benefit. With crosstalk reduction you don't need any helping reflections, although I'll bet they might still be a pleasant enhancement if they are delayed and attenuated adequately. I will contend that it's ultimately better with crosstalk reduction - for stereo, which means 3D or solid sound with a sense of depth and volume. Real stereo recordings will never have anything totally hard panned to one channel or the other. The closest thing to that might be if a fly buzzes right next to one of the microphones.
As for my impressions of my system returned to 2 channel arrangement with no crosstalk reduction, it sounds really nice. I notice the dip in response on center panned sounds sometimes, but the phantom center is very solid and present, which is surprising because my listening triangle is quite wide. I'm tempted to say this is the best phantom center I've ever had in any of my spaces! I don't know if I've ever heard a soundstage this wide with such a solid center from standard 2channel. My speakers are about twice as far apart from each other as I am back from the plane they are on. I'd move them closer together but they're huge corner horn speakers so that's not practical, and without crosstalk reduction the tweeters need to be with the rest of the drivers. Still, I'm getting perceptions on some recordings all the way out to 180 degrees wide, and on a few things go behind my head. I can pick up ambient cues that give a sense of space and depth in the recordings that have them, but it's a different presentation, not as captivating as with crosstalk reduction, but still good. Sounds that are panned wide have better clarity and coherence than before. Makes sense to me, because they are coming from where the speakers are. I can see why people are generally very happy with just 2 channels and no crosstalk reduction. I'd say that crosstalk reduction takes stereo up a notch, it's similar to going from mono to stereo. In mono you can still hear ambient effects, but they just don't flesh out as well into a sense of real space. Dual channel stereo can do much better, and dual channel stereo with crosstalk reduction has even greater potential. I should add that I've never heard something similar from multi-channel recordings as to what happens with crosstalk reduced 2 channel, but that could just be how the recordings were made and the setups I had to listen on.