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Snobbery in Hi-Fi. Why are people so stupid and turn their noses up at gear costing much less which is just as good?

Wrong again. The above statement is yet another example of you making derogatory assumptions about other people. (Ask around the forum if I come across as shy, LOL.)


And I reply directly to you. If my post follows yours, I don't consider <quote/unquote> to be necessary. I save space. Two people could have a dialogue for many posts in a row without constantly quoting the previous post, if no other posters intrude the flow.

It is only when I am replying to a post other than the immediately preceding post, that I will quote. Like this one, for instance.

So, I repeat, your opening accusations are wrong and make assumptions that suit you. Probably better if you stop doing that. I see that you very much dislike it when I have done the same in return, purely to show you how it feels.


??? So you are using the term "reply directly" to mean reply in the thread, and "speak directly" to mean open a PM? Or.....not? I dunno. And you have specific conditions for doing one or the other? Disagreeing should be constrained to PMs? That would be a first.


And yet you have not done so with me. No PM. Hmm.


So, you are the one stating this preference, but you are leaving it to me to do it, yet you don't? You put it all out in the forum? Hmmm. How very manipulative: you get to put your 'stuff' about other people out in the forum, but you want them to constrain their disagreements with you to PM, in private?

You need to show that you are being genuine and intend to follow your own advice. How? Well, don't reply to this post in the forum. Take it to PM. Over to you.

Remember, the thread you started specifically to create false dichotomies and label people here, got shut down by Rick on the same day as you started it. Now you are doing it here. Just....stop. And we can all happily move on. Like you promised to do so many pages ago (while playing the troll card at every POV that disagrees with yours).


Aha, that explains a lot of what I have been seeing in this thread. Thank you.
That is a lot of thought you put into your reply, I appreciate that although I can see you're quite worked up, and the underlying point you are trying to make as it pertains to this thread seems to be lost.

Are you supporting the thesis that those who buy luxury goods, are doing so because they are snobs, to satisfy their ego and to look down on others?

I'm trying to take the emotion out for a productive dialogue.
 
there's a book called "Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change" by W. David Marx. The title sums up the book's main assertion pretty neatly

I'm sure someone could write a good essay about how his arguments apply to audio as a hobby. I'm not an essayist, but I could make a few crude generalisations about how audio gear is used for social status:

- the nouveau riche might favour the expensive and gaudy: think Dan D'Agostino and Wilson. Many here would scoff at this stuff, but this gear does signify status among a certain class of people

- those who choose cheaper, equally (or better) performing gear are signalling status in a different way. specifically, when someone with the means to buy expensive gear chooses not to, I think it signals that they consider themselves above status seeking - an act that in itself signals a specific status. Casio was mentioned in this thread recently - when someone like Bill Gates wears a Casio, what does that mean? Does Gates just appreciate cheap, simple, functional, utilitarian products? Does he want to come across as approachable and down-to-earth, despite his unfathomable wealth? We ask ourselves - is Gates aware of Patek Phillipe, but he considers expensive jewellery to be crass, pointless, both (edit: and does he want us to be asking ourselves this question)?

- since I mentioned new money, what kind of audio equipment is associated with old money? Marx cites something like this an example: in old money, WASPy New England, a slightly beat up old Volvo signifies a level of taste in that community. it isn't a flashy Lambo, but it also isn't too cheap, disposable - it's "just so". Is the audio equivalent a vintage audio system? Maybe a small Bose system that doesn't overwhelm with the estate's antique furniture (honestly, I don't know - I'm not in that world)
 
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- those who choose cheaper, equally (or better) performing gear are signalling status in a different way. specifically, when someone with the means to buy expensive gear chooses not to, I think it signals that they consider themselves above status seeking - an act that in itself signals a specific status. Casio was mentioned in this thread recently - when someone like Bill Gates wears a Casio, what does that mean? Does Gates just appreciate cheap, simple, functional, utilitarian products? Does he want to come across as approachable and down-to-earth, despite his unfathomable wealth? We ask ourselves - is Gates aware of Patek Phillipe, but he considers expensive jewellery to be crass, pointless, both?
So much philosophy and depth in this, I love these types of discussions.

We can never tell what goes through the mind of people. Let's use Bill Gates, he also have traveled in a luxury yacht with a support vessel. One day of operation on that vessel is the net worth of some of us here or the net worth of some remote village in the country his philanthropy supports. What was his intention of using such vessel? Was it for status symbol, was it for security and convenience, was it for luxury? Was it to look at down on some?

Maybe all of the above? Yet he wears a Casio. We just would never know what his intentions are, but I don't think it would matter to my life.

What would matter, I would love to get my hands on a Yamaha CA-2000, refurbish it to mint condition and modernize the inputs and outputs. Have it on display in my man cave with a wet bar and a pool table. When the boys come over for a gathering, we would sip on some whisky and listen to some music on that Yamaha and play few games of pool with a basketball game on in the background. Shoot the breeze. Enjoy life and each other's company.

To me, it would be my statement of personal taste.
 
We can never tell what goes through the mind of people. Let's use Bill Gates, he also have traveled in a luxury yacht with a support vessel. One day of operation on that vessel is the net worth of some of us here or the net worth of some remote village in the country his philanthropy supports. What was his intention of using such vessel? Was it for status symbol, was it for security and convenience, was it for luxury? Was it to look at down on some?

Maybe all of the above? Yet he wears a Casio. We just would never know what his intentions are, but I don't think it would matter to my life.
I can see how there's an inconsistency, maybe dissonance there.

I think fashion (and by extension watches) is often seen as frivolous, inane. Wilde wrote "fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months". So, it's often very intentionally rejected, almost always by college dropout programmer-turned-billionaire types.

Gabe Newell, superyacht owner, wears a uniform - a white oxford button-down collar shirt, every day (used to be a polo shirt, changed at some point). The self-imposed uniform says that someone has found something that works for them, they're sticking to it, and they have no interest in the frivolity of changing fashions, a pointless distraction.

Zuckerberg is similar - superyacht owner, but never seemed to have much interest in how he presented (this has changed in recent years)

So maybe it's moreso a rejection of trends in aesthetics than material goods. What makes a tech billionaire so attracted to superyachts? Maybe it gets to a point where they say "well, gotta spend it on something", or they'll claim it's the engineering that fascinates them, who knows?

I'm rambling and well off-topic, but one more aside about self-imposed uniforms. Steve Jobs was the tech billionaire who perhaps showed the most interest in aesthetics, yet he wore the same thing every day. I think he probably had a philosophical reason for it, and it's worth mentioning how deliberate it was: New Balance sneakers and Levi's are casual, common items, sure, but the turtleneck was a custom Issey Miyake design. He wore the same thing every day, but he was very deliberate about it. I think there's something interesting about an intentional unintentionality
 
there's a book called "Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change" by W. David Marx. The title sums up the book's main assertion pretty neatly

I'm sure someone could write a good essay about how his arguments apply to audio as a hobby. I'm not an essayist, but I could make a few crude generalisations about how audio gear is used for social status:

- the nouveau riche might favour the expensive and gaudy: think Dan D'Agostino and Wilson. Many here would scoff at this stuff, but this gear does signify status among a certain class of people

- those who choose cheaper, equally (or better) performing gear are signalling status in a different way. specifically, when someone with the means to buy expensive gear chooses not to, I think it signals that they consider themselves above status seeking - an act that in itself signals a specific status. Casio was mentioned in this thread recently - when someone like Bill Gates wears a Casio, what does that mean? Does Gates just appreciate cheap, simple, functional, utilitarian products? Does he want to come across as approachable and down-to-earth, despite his unfathomable wealth? We ask ourselves - is Gates aware of Patek Phillipe, but he considers expensive jewellery to be crass, pointless, both (edit: and does he want us to be asking ourselves this question)?

- since I mentioned new money, what kind of audio equipment is associated with old money? Marx cites something like this an example: in old money, WASPy New England, a slightly beat up old Volvo signifies a level of taste in that community. it isn't a flashy Lambo, but it also isn't too cheap, disposable - it's "just so". Is the audio equivalent a vintage audio system? Maybe a small Bose system that doesn't overwhelm with the estate's antique furniture (honestly, I don't know - I'm not in that world)

Good post.

I’m still trying to grapple with just how pervasive “ buying for status” is among audiophiles and I still think that it is not very pervasive at all. Not that it doesn’t exist.

If I think back to the 70s, I suppose there was a sort of status thing with audio because most guys wanted a good stereo. And if you had a good stereo system, yeah you enjoyed showing it off.

I certainly remember some friends of mine into car audio, loving to show off their system with whatever new album Rush had released .
When my dad brought home KEF 105.2 speakers and carver amplification, the main joy was just being able to listen to it, but it was also really fun when friends came over who also really appreciated cranking up our stereo system with some earth, wind and fire or Van Halen or whatever. So yeah, we had a certain status from that I think.

But, having gotten high end audio around the mid 90s, that’s not something I perceived nearly as much among audiophiles. That was the time when people were used to using things like Walkman‘s and it wasn’t “ everybody needs a great stereo system” anymore. So it seemed like the audiophiles I met were a real niche and just sort of obsessives about gear and sound quality. Sure they enjoyed sharing the experience with somebody else who was also into it. But it didn’t come off as status seeking more about sharing enthusiasm.

And that’s something I wouldn’t want to mix up - personal satisfaction, enthusiasm, joy of sharing the experience - with status seeking.

Just trying to figure out what degree status might play a role in my own choices…

With my Home Theatre and two channel listening room that I spent an enormous amount of time designing (and a good portion of my disposable income). I don’t ever remember “status” per se being a reason for anything I bought or for the design, but rather everything was aimed at the type of experience I wanted to have in the room… and also of course any guests would have in the room.

When it was completed plenty of guests were very enthusiastic and that was wonderful and even part of the joy - being able to provide that experience, not just for me, but for others who appreciate it. And sure some pride. And I guess there was some status involved in the sense that my place became the go-to for friends who wanted to watch movies or who wanted to gather to watch sporting events.

But “status” itself was not something I was conscious of at all when selecting all the gear and designing the room.

(I don’t think my 2-channel gear would get much status points around here, given many probably think I overpaid for my gear, at least relative to what they would choose).

And as far as I can tell personal enthusiasm , and sharing that with other audiophiles, seems the mindset of the majority of audiophiles I’ve known, as well as interacted with online.

When some audiophiles accuse other audiophiles of seeking status I’m somewhat suspicious of this because it’s always “the other guy,” the other audiophile, who has the purported base, crass motivations “not me.”
And one thing anybody who has spent time shooting the shit on forums would have noticed: when somebody tries to characterize your own motivations in a debate, they are rarely accurate. Something to keep in mind when we’re trying to assess other people’s motivations.

Now in terms of being snobby… OK yeah I’ve certainly seen some snobby behaviour in the audiophile world, on this forum too as with every other audiophile forum. But that tends to be more about judging other audiophiles. I mean, take the the sentiment: “ I’m a rational audiophile who understands the technical aspects of audio gear, so I don’t overspend or get suckered into overpriced stuff like many audiofools do…

I suppose that could be seen as a flipside of the snobby golden ears who sniff that such people don’t have the taste or hearing or budget to appreciate the finer gear. And claim “envy.” (so I think if an individual audiophile was claiming people envy his/her particular gear… yeah that would be snobby).

In the former sense, I certainly would be guilty of making some snobby comments about snake oil and audio suckers.
 
I can see how there's an inconsistency, maybe dissonance there.

I think fashion (and by extension watches) is often seen as frivolous, inane. Wilde wrote "fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months". So, it's often very intentionally rejected, almost always by college dropout programmer-turned-billionaire types.

Gabe Newell, superyacht owner, wears a uniform - a white oxford button-down collar shirt, every day (used to be a polo shirt, changed at some point). The self-imposed uniform says that someone has found something that works for them, they're sticking to it, and they have no interest in the frivolity of changing fashions, a pointless distraction.

Zuckerberg is similar - superyacht owner, but never seemed to have much interest in how he presented (this has changed in recent years)

So maybe it's moreso a rejection of trends in aesthetics than material goods. What makes a tech billionaire so attracted to superyachts? Maybe it gets to a point where they say "well, gotta spend it on something", or they'll claim it's the engineering that fascinates them, who knows?

I'm rambling and well off-topic, but one more aside about self-imposed uniforms. Steve Jobs was the tech billionaire who perhaps showed the most interest in aesthetics, yet he wore the same thing every day. I think he probably had a philosophical reason for it, and it's worth mentioning how deliberate it was: New Balance sneakers and Levi's are casual, common items, sure, but the turtleneck was a custom Issey Miyake design. He wore the same thing every day, but he was very deliberate about it. I think there's something interesting about an intentional unintentionality
This behavior may seem very puzzling for some but I actually completely relate.

I think fashion is rather um. . .ah, let's just say the word of my choice will get me banned here. As such, I wear clothes from Costco, Marshalls and lately from Amazon. I like to wear the same t-shirts and khaki shorts in different colors in the summer. In the winter, hoods and jeans or sweatpants.

It's not a rejection of tends or aesthetics, it's that I just don't care how I look. Because in my personal life and in my professional career, how I look won't change the amount that's in my bank account. And at my age, being happily married, there are no women that I need to impress.

I do like things that are well crafted with tactile substance, like a mechanical watch for instance or my 50lbs Yamaha integrated amp. Seeing these well crafted items, touching it, having it, there is satisfaction.

I enjoy traveling, because travel is culture, it's experience.

So I am not so different from these billionaires, except for the difference in billions of dollars.
 
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At this point, I'm probably not going to get into another expensive hobby. I have an Omega Speedmaster which I stopped wearing after few occasions of random watch aficionado wanting to strike a conversation. I can't imagine if I had a Rolex or a Patek. Would be rather uncomfortable in those situations.
I would say you got unlucky. It's incredibly rare for that to happen.
 
I think fashion (and by extension watches) is often seen as frivolous, inane. Wilde wrote "fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months". So, it's often very intentionally rejected, almost always by college dropout programmer-turned-billionaire types.

Gabe Newell, superyacht owner, wears a uniform - a white oxford button-down collar shirt, every day (used to be a polo shirt, changed at some point). The self-imposed uniform says that someone has found something that works for them, they're sticking to it, and they have no interest in the frivolity of changing fashions, a pointless distraction.

Zuckerberg is similar - superyacht owner, but never seemed to have much interest in how he presented (this has changed in recent years)
He's wearing classic clothing. This isn't considered fashion. Both polo and Oxford shirts are classic timeless items. Very normal for old money to be seen wearing such items. New money celebrities get caught up in fashion and bling only to struggle financially in the future as they don't spend their money wisely.

Zuck, until recently as you mentioned, had the most minimalistic monotone wardrobe because he believes in decision fatigue.

Apparently, yachts usually get written off as a business expense for hospitality.
 
Good post.

I’m still trying to grapple with just how pervasive “ buying for status” is among audiophiles and I still think that it is not very pervasive at all. Not that it doesn’t exist.

If I think back to the 70s, I suppose there was a sort of status thing with audio because most guys wanted a good stereo. And if you had a good stereo system, yeah you enjoyed showing it off.

I certainly remember some friends of mine into car audio, loving to show off their system with whatever new album Rush had released .
When my dad brought home KEF 105.2 speakers and carver amplification, the main joy was just being able to listen to it, but it was also really fun when friends came over who also really appreciated cranking up our stereo system with some earth, wind and fire or Van Halen or whatever. So yeah, we had a certain status from that I think.

But, having gotten high end audio around the mid 90s, that’s not something I perceived nearly as much among audiophiles. That was the time when people were used to using things like Walkman‘s and it wasn’t “ everybody needs a great stereo system” anymore. So it seemed like the audiophiles I met were a real niche and just sort of obsessives about gear and sound quality. Sure they enjoyed sharing the experience with somebody else who was also into it. But it didn’t come off as status seeking more about sharing enthusiasm.

And that’s something I wouldn’t want to mix up - personal satisfaction, enthusiasm, joy of sharing the experience - with status seeking.

Just trying to figure out what degree status might play a role in my own choices…

With my Home Theatre and two channel listening room that I spent an enormous amount of time designing (and a good portion of my disposable income). I don’t ever remember “status” per se being a reason for anything I bought or for the design, but rather everything was aimed at the type of experience I wanted to have in the room… and also of course any guests would have in the room.

When it was completed plenty of guests were very enthusiastic and that was wonderful and even part of the joy - being able to provide that experience, not just for me, but for others who appreciate it. And sure some pride. And I guess there was some status involved in the sense that my place became the go-to for friends who wanted to watch movies or who wanted to gather to watch sporting events.

But “status” itself was not something I was conscious of at all when selecting all the gear and designing the room.

(I don’t think my 2-channel gear would get much status points around here, given many probably think I overpaid for my gear, at least relative to what they would choose).

And as far as I can tell personal enthusiasm , and sharing that with other audiophiles, seems the mindset of the majority of audiophiles I’ve known, as well as interacted with online.

When some audiophiles accuse other audiophiles of seeking status I’m somewhat suspicious of this because it’s always “the other guy,” the other audiophile, who has the purported base, crass motivations “not me.”
And one thing anybody who has spent time shooting the shit on forums would have noticed: when somebody tries to characterize your own motivations in a debate, they are rarely accurate. Something to keep in mind when we’re trying to assess other people’s motivations.

Now in terms of being snobby… OK yeah I’ve certainly seen some snobby behaviour in the audiophile world, on this forum too as with every other audiophile forum. But that tends to be more about judging other audiophiles. I mean, take the the sentiment: “ I’m a rational audiophile who understands the technical aspects of audio gear, so I don’t overspend or get suckered into overpriced stuff like many audiofools do…

I suppose that could be seen as a flipside of the snobby golden ears who sniff that such people don’t have the taste or hearing or budget to appreciate the finer gear. And claim “envy.” (so I think if an individual audiophile was claiming people envy his/her particular gear… yeah that would be snobby).

In the former sense, I certainly would be guilty of making some snobby comments about snake oil and audio suckers.
You have won the internet today!
 
Have you heard of the difference between capital C culture and the little c culture?

As a tourist, we never really see the real culture of a country. Only when you live and work in a country for a period of time do you experience the small c culture.
True - being prior military with several overseas tours, that's when you experience the actual cultrue of a specific place.
 
Have you heard of the difference between capital C culture and the little c culture?

As a tourist, we never really see the real culture of a country. Only when you live and work in a country for a period of time do you experience the small c culture.
That is very true.
 
No one admits they are purchasing something for status; it's a subconscious drive. We all do it to some extent.
 
I would say you got unlucky. It's incredibly rare for that to happen.
I was in management consultant for close to a decade in a past career. I traveled a lot across the country, for some clients in certain industries, a full-blown suite was necessary if that is how the c-suite dressed. So walking the halls of senior executives, many have nice timepieces and are aficionados. Because I was a relatively young man compared to them, few would make encouraging compliments because they too started off with watches "lesser" than Rolex when they were younger, they would tell me stories of how much their first timepiece meant to them. Those specific scenarios weren't so bad because it was confined in the halls of senior executives.
 
I was in management consultant for close to a decade in a past career. I traveled a lot across the country, for some clients in certain industries, a full-blown suite was necessary if that is how the c-suite dressed. So walking the halls of senior executives, many have nice timepieces and are aficionados. Because I was a relatively young man compared to them, few would make encouraging compliments because they too started off with watches "lesser" than Rolex when they were younger, they would tell me stories of how much their first timepiece meant to them. Those specific scenarios weren't so bad because it was confined in the halls of senior executives.

I can't stand Rolex as a brand. There isn't one of their current models I would want. I got over the submariner as a grail thing after about 8 months into the hobby. The only watch I quite like is the OP but I don't like the double batons. There is an older model that has single batons all the way round, but I really don't want a Rolex. Rolex owners are usually quite insufferable. That and the business model leaves me not wanting to be associated with the brand in any way.
 
I can't stand Rolex as a brand. There isn't one of their current models I would want. I got over the submariner as a grail thing after about 8 months into the hobby. The only watch I quite like is the OP but I don't like the double batons. There is an older model that has single batons all the way round, but I really don't want a Rolex. Rolex owners are usually quite insufferable. That and the business model leaves me not wanting to be associated with the brand in any way.
The only Rolex that I would want (but to expensive) is The Explorer (on a silicone strap) an unpretentious time piece.

I am beginning to think that high-end audio gear does not create any snobbish behavior but audiophiles that believe digital is the best audio format and look down on audiophiles that prefer analog as losers in an outdated format. I see that type snobbish here and on other forums (Hoffman Audio) maybe except AudioKarma. I don't see much snobbish on camera and watch forums.
 
I can't stand Rolex as a brand. There isn't one of their current models I would want. I got over the submariner as a grail thing after about 8 months into the hobby. The only watch I quite like is the OP but I don't like the double batons. There is an older model that has single batons all the way round, but I really don't want a Rolex. Rolex owners are usually quite insufferable. That and the business model leaves me not wanting to be associated with the brand in any way.
The only Rolex that I would want (but to expensive) is The Explorer (on a silicone strap) an unpretentious time piece.

I am beginning to think that high-end audio gear does not create any snobbish behavior but audiophiles that believe digital is the best audio format and look down on audiophiles that prefer analog as losers in an outdated format. I see that type snobbish here and on other forums (Hoffman Audio) maybe except AudioKarma. I don't see much snobbish on camera and watch forums.
At the time when I brought my Omega, I was relatively young, and the Omega style fitted my style better at that age, I probably could of stretched to get a Rolex, but keep in mind, timepieces weren't as crazily priced as it is today, today, I won't be able to afford it. Besides, I was saving up to buy a place at that time, so a Rolex wasn't on my mind.

But at the time, Rolex seems to be more fitting for folks in their 40's to 50's from my perspective. I just find the overall Rolex style a bit gaudy for my taste.
 
(Ask around the forum if I come across as shy, LOL.)
Have to admit - never known you to be shy to dish out the criticism. Even had you on block for a short time a couple of years ago as a result. :p
 
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