use a summing box to connect your sub. you can use higher resistance values than the ones specified here:
http://techtalk.parts-express.com/forum/tech-talk-forum/60443-stereo-to-mono-summing-circuit
the principle is the same as long as the resistor ratios remain the same.
i went with a d50s (i think, still auditioning) because it's less expensive and my amplifier is not fully balanced. everything is physically stacked in my system so that an 18" RCA cable is plenty long. even the sub is only a couple feet away. it sounds really good. further improvements to SINAD are almost certainly not going to be audible and the noise floor of my AMP + DSP combo is higher than the d50s floor.
note that my system is nothing to sneeze at -- axiom audio omnidirectional LFR880s + ADA1000 DSP amp + EP500 sub. i am powering the d50s with a lab instrumentation power supply -- an agilent e3610 -- as i do with all my low voltage and power boxes.
prior to this, i was running an smsl sanskrit 10th and/or sanskrit 6th, but the spdif performance was too poor for the new amp (previously i had an smsl sa-160 driving axiom M80s) and speakers, no sub.
hope that helps. the d50s performance is really fantastic both for the money and objectively. my general feeling is that unless you know you can benefit from balanced signal all the way from DAC to speaker drivers, single ended and short cables sounds the same as fully balanced.
loudspeakers are also fundamentally different from headphones, where balanced makes a big big difference, but largely because headphones have reallllly long cables attached to them that you can't avoid.