Just think logically. The brain adjusting for something does not imply we all hear the same. Nor is it a simple binary of hearing or not hearing. If you can point to any actual studies that show people hear “similarly”, happy to take a look.
I am not being binary, that is mostly you. As for people hearing similarly look to Fletcher Munson curves.
You are extrapolating to exaggerated scenarios without answering that paradoxical question. If my bass frequencies were deficient to 3db (which the artist didn’t know about) and the recording was eqed to 3db more as the artist wanted, would I be hearing what the artist intended in a flat system?
Yes, the artist was adding a slight increase in bass vs flat. Your hearing might be 3 db less than the artist, but unless you are deaf to those frequencies you'll also hear a slight increase verses what is normally flat to your normal perception. If you added an additional 3 db in the bass, instead of a slight increase you'd hear a much larger increase. It would not be the slight change in balance the artist intended. With a flat system you hear it correctly. This isn't a new idea you have, and you have it all wrong.
Or, if my audio device was compensating with 3db more for a recording not so boosted by the artist, would I then be hearing what the artist intended?
No, you'd not be hearing the artist's intentions if you add on more low end boost. Because the difference in balance vs your normal perception will be more than the artist was trying to produce.
With all due respect, I am going to stop responding in real time to posts. It is overwhelming and the quality of the discussion tends to go down in a chat. As someone has in his signature, best to curate to give some time to think for all of us before disagreeing. Applies to all of us.
You seem to be arguing that we are supposing everyone hears the same. When we aren't. As a counter point you are proposing adjusting for each individual's differences so they get the same exact levels sent to the brain. Beyond the practicality of that is the problem the brain takes and processes the signals it gets. It isn't that the brain flattens it out for everyone as it doesn't. But what it hears as normal is corrupted if you add on EQ for what is otherwise normal. You'll actually be moving in the wrong direction with that approach. You'll be creating additional differences where a flat system wouldn't do such a thing.
Your approach is like people who take headphones and EQ them so all tones sound the same level believing they have flattened the response. That actually moves you away from the proper response.