I tried creating a crossover like this using Equalizer APO.That looks like it would work fine. It's basically similar to my config. I would experiment with different crossover points and slopes. It's common to have second order filters at least, and by using EQAPO you can even have third, fourth, eight order filters if you want them. Just do multiple low or high pass filters in series. think at least two high pass filters would be typical, and if you're using a high frequency that both the speakers and subs can play easily like 100hz, you might try four filters. This requres more output at the center frequency compared to one filter but it results in less content above that frequency going to the sub. The best settings may be a compromise depending on your speakers and where you position them. It is also ok to use different number of filters for the high pass and low pass to account for those speakers' natural roll-offs and the low pass built in to the sub (if it can't be disabled).
You might notice that with Windows set to 5.1, some apps or games might output 5.1 signals that this mixing is applied to. You don't have a center or surround speakers so you may have to deal with that in order to hear everything. The LFE signal level needs to be higher than the bass from other speakers. Downmixing to stereo costs headroom but you can set it up to be toggled when you need to. A group of filters can be stored in a text file that you can toggle at once with the control > include filter. If you're only using apps that output stereo, you may not have to think about that at all.
Also, be aware there may or may not be a low pass built into the lfe channel on your sound card. If so, you pretty much have to use that channel for the sub in a full 5.1 setup, but otherwise you may prefer to use any of the other channels.
For those who aren't using EQAPO, Windows can also do this for you. When you set up your speakers to a 5.1 configuration for example, you can uncheck speakers that are not present - for example if you have 4.1 with no center, you uncheck the center speaker in the wizard and it will be mixed into left and right for you.
Since I’m used to Dirac, doing manual EQ was pretty tough — but honestly, I had fun with it!
The sound turned out surprisingly good.