This seems like a 'nose in the air' post. After all isn't about musical enjoyment? Not everybody has the budget, room size or even the interest to try to simulate live sound. For that matter I would argue that multichannel stereo does a better job of creating a live sound that any stereo system. Incidentally, I'm one of those 'audiophiles', a term typically used in derision who uses 'small' 2 ways albeit supplemented with small subwoofers with some effort to equalize using automated systems.
I understand you're trying to critique completely subjective audiophiles, but think you're using too broad a brush.
Hey you use subs

with some EQ , the stereotypical audiophiles don’t . 2 ways with subs is a good solution.
I don’t have multichannel for music these days my system is basically a 2.2 system 2 speakers 2 subs . And the room EQ to make it work
(WiiM room fit or manual PEQ in ROON ).
What I tried to ridicule was the paradox with uber expensive 2 ways instead of decent towers ( or subs + small speakers ) ”fast bass” and all that . A tower speaker occupie the same space as two ways on stands .
If a ”purist” tries a bigger speaker they get into a game off trying all kind of placements and it’s still booming to much.
What happened is our usual problem of small room acoustics ! If you bring bass capable speakers into a small room you get some issues.
The practical way too solve this is DSP . Which some people don’t want at all.
So you trade a real pragmatic solution against imagined purist benefits ?
You can also have very extensive room treatment but for bass these are very invasive expensive and unpractical , you need to afford to have a whole room set aside for music only.
It’s the mindset , instead of some pragmatic insight try some DSP or acoustic room treatment, let’s buy a fancy power cord ?
When I was younger I was one of those why tried expensive cables and ”upgrades”

I think had some silly cones and green rims for my CD’s.
It was girlfriend why bringed the first CD player, at the time I was ofcourse a vinyl only person, what a fool I was .