Disco music fell out of favor decades ago in US. I always find it strange when I listen to European pop music and hear that signature drum loops and such. So some of the commentary you hear about EDM is likely cultural.EDM is essentially an outgrowth of disco, and I don’t see why lovers of to disco or those who dance disco would not think of themselves as music lovers. (and it seems that would extend to EDM).
Me personally, I enjoy listening to some of it and per my previous note, have them in my reference music library. I do get tired of them though more than other types of music.