Make sure "Lock Volume" is off on the RME. Switch on "Auto Ref Level", play a very soft track at the lowest volume level you want to run with ROON (say, -20dB), then adjust RME volume to the playback level you would expect. You now have those 20dB of headroom for that soft track, and with a loud track you probably get 30dB. That should be enough to shake the house.
However, the preferred solution would be to always use the RME for final volume control (because it does that so extremely well) and leave ROON at a high setting.