Actually data from the AES, not my theories. I know how loud an orchestra is, from the back row even, but do not want it that loudly in my home. And when I am in the audience I do not like the front row -- too close to see everyone on stage, and too durn loud for me, plus the balance is rarely as good as back in the middle (where the sound board is usually set, not by coincidence).
But thank you for denigrating some of my favorite music; I don't listen to big testosteronic pieces all the time. If that makes me a wimp so be it.
This place seems awfully snarky lately, need to stay away a bit.