As far as B&W are concerned, I have not seen them used by recording engineers, and I have not seen them used for mixing or mastering. I have not seen them used in studios other than as main monitors, and the role of main monitors is to generate SPL and impress clients.
Probably not much any more, but there is a strong legacy of B&W 801s being used by the major classical music labels in all their studios by choice. Abbey Road's relationship with B&W comes from when EMI chose them for the studio complex back in 1979 or so..
Decca, Deutsche Grammophon also had them for all their studios. I remember seeing them at another classical music label's mixing/mastering studios too in London (ironically when I picked up some ATC cabinets .. ).
So, from the original 801s to the Matrix series to the late '90s Nautilus 800 series, they were still used in classical, and film too (like Skywalker Studios, Sony etc)
I've heard mastering engineers from those genres and eras also swear by them too (their personal favourite monitors) ..
... but studio norms moved on, active monitors became the norm and I bet, as you say, Abbey road only stick with B&W / Classé amps because of some deal.
I've a pair of 801 Matrix's that used to be Abbey Road owned, taken home by an engineer when they replaced them with the newer model, used in his career after leaving.
So .. yep it depends what B&Ws one is talking about. Likewise, no-one uses Tannoy monitors any more in studios, despite being ubiquitous at some point in the 70s/80s/90s ..
A picture of Walter Becker's studio circa 1995 (B&W 801 Matrix monitors .. and Meyer HD1s, another 90s classic monitor) .