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So why would dressing this way make them feel like they look good? If you dress in that certain way, get on stage and perform in front of large crowds and your playing rock music I don't think you are being too specific about whose attention you want. I also think you are being naive about why they do that. Plus you are implying that more is going on when all anyone said is they are nice looking or easy on the eye. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing. Nor do we have any trouble understanding it is a performance. We simply confirmed as they wished that they dressed in a way to make them feel they look good and we agree they do. What kind of sense does it make to dress in a way that makes them feel they look good and then not want anyone to notice?I know this is a somewhat hopeless discussion here, but people dress for many reasons, often simply to feel good themselves (in daily life or as performers). Your attention may or may not not be the object or desired outcome. Performers are likely to want to look good on stage, but that doesn't necessarily correlate with a desire to be objectified.
I don't want to derail this as it is about their music and talent. So I'll not say more about it.