1. Hands down subs are the best upgrade one can do, going dual is the next best and probably an even better upgrade than a single sub. Going 4 also provides a step up but not as massive as going dual.
2. Getting an acceptable decay rate(mine is .2 sec a lot of treatment) also plays a massive role in bass response and tightness, treatments does help in achieving this, how much it can help with bass depends on the condition of your room in the first place. I tend to agree that dual or 4 subs does help with modes.
3. Love putting Subs in corners, get more of a thump. I also get a perfect bass boost with a 4pi response right where i need it in my sealed sub and an increase in sensitivity.
4. EQ ruins that special roll off of the sub that your enjoying or not enjoying, that said EQ can also give you that roll off to find that transients or type of bass your after. Personally, when it comes to dance music transients is key and I never EQ cause my sealed gives me the most perfect bass, with other music genres EQ it's fine to oomph up the bass cause you wont get overhang from the recording itself. (I've noticed that this concept hasn't floated around in this forum but explained well it makes sense) Essentially, you improve transients only by cutting off the lower frequencies or reducing there db that said you still need a good sub and large cabinet to reap the benefits of a decent sub.