On a side note, I have the A-301 and they do not sound them same as my Rotels and DA-9. Now the big question is which one is neutral or which ones arent? I know this will boil down to someone asking me to do a blind test while volume matching all of them but its just not the same.
Well, yes. For this claim you'd have to do some reliable testing. But I'm perfectly fine with not yanking on that rope all over again. So, just for the casual chat, if you'd ask where would I put my money, it would probably be Rotel. If those two amps do sound different I'd be inclined to look for the difference in Rotel just because of the reputation of those companies boasting with "British sound". Once again, it's a guess.
As far as the amps go, you seem to find yourself in a situation where you got attracted, for one reason or the other, to a piece of gear that hasn't been third party tested. No real help there. You could just find a way to test it. Or, if the sales are really that good, buy it and resell if you're not pleased.
Back to the amps. If you're looking for cheap, reliable and neutral, you would be hard pressed to find a better offer than Onkyo A-9010 if buying new. It gives 44W into 8 and 70 into 4 ohms. It's an older model so it's not easy to find it, but some of its replacements might still do the trick.