My 'target' is a horizontal line but a few dB 'drop' in the ear-gain area is desirable for listening enjoyment (takes the edge off a bit) but this differs from person to person.
With all of this said, The NDH30 measures somewhat similar to the HD650 so if you don't like that headphone for being shouty in the presence around 5kHz.
I don't find the HD650 shouty in the presence area around 5kHz at all. That's what you perceive.
Having a treble hole, and weak bass emphasis then I don't think you'd like the NDH 30 either.
There is no treble hole, not in the HD650 and not in the NDH30.
There is substantial treble peaking in certain Beyerdynamic headphones.
The 'treble hole' you see in some measurements is caused by the measurement method which is not reliable above several kHz.
I would encourage you to research about industry standard test fixtures and the various targets.
There is, however, a treble peak in quite a few headphones, among them the DT990 which you do not perceive as a peak but rather as 'nicely detailed'.
But even like I said in the video HD650 is better version with a little less bass so even on your target it would be better to get HD650 over NDH 30
HD650 has less bass extension and a little more than desired upper bass/lower midrange (i.e. 'warmth')
I like the NDH 30 a lot and like it better than my HD 650 and much better than my original DT 990/600 as well.
I did like the orig. DT1990 with the 'obligatory for me' treble filter and 'analytic pads'.
Didn't buy one as I have slightly better sounding headphones but would have if I didn't have those.
This means I don't share your views and I don't perceive headphones the same way you do.
My reference is calibrated near-fields and not 'speakers in a room with an added 'smiley face' EQ.
Your perceptionally neutral is NOT my perceptionally neutral but is my 'smiley face EQ' tonality.
MUCH higher bass levels than Harman (which I find a dB or 2 too much) and can't stand as much treble as you seem to need, it is piecing to me and most others.
The fact that you don't perceive the NDH 30 as 'neutral' is because the reference you have is not 'neutral'. This is a reference and maybe even SPL related thing.