I think I get what you mean. Big speakers are definitely furniture and call attention both. Which is why we must find the best compromise according to our desires and situation. We all want good sound, that's a given, but a big chunky piece in our rooms we find ugly in the end... that's not it.
Gladly the market is big. There's nice stuff for everyone. Personally I really like popping colours to lighten up a room, so I got these that just so happen to be good speakers too (

) - for cheap.
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(Looks much better in person ofc, especially in sunlight and at dawn)